Parents forbade something to many of us in childhood. Sometimes we heard the word “no” too often.
But years later, when we have our own children, we begin to understand our parents. Raising children is not an easy task. Parents can be good-natured and love their children indefinitely, but out of a sense of fear they use the wrong patterns of behavior. Try not to resort to such behaviors in dealing with children.
1. Excessive custody. Worrying news and phobias keep many parents at bay. However, life goes on. When fear controls our actions, it negates our good intentions. Anxiety for the child turns into control, looking after him into supervision, and protection into excessive custody. Sometimes, due to excessive custody, parents are tempted not to let the child out of the house, but this only suppresses him. If you do not allow your child to play on the court with other children, go to birthdays, etc., he will not be able to develop the communication skills that he needs. Let your child communicate with peers. Continue reading
Parenting seems to be a simple occupation only at first glance. In fact, this is a difficult task, because the upbringing process lasts from the first days of a child’s life to his majority, and often longer. Often relationships are based on love and affection, but sometimes circumstances arise when we are forced to be strict and authoritarian with our children. In such cases, we are talking about discipline.
Discipline is very important for the proper upbringing of children. She teaches the child to control their actions and thoughts. Without discipline, the educational process is incomplete. But it’s important not to overdo it. Excessive discipline may not bring the desired results, moreover, in the worst case, it can lead to dangerous behavior in children. Therefore, there are certain things that should not be done in the process of raising children. Let’s consider some of them in more detail.
1. Do not confuse discipline with punishment Continue reading
From time to time, parents tell their children inappropriate and even harmful phrases. And, no matter how rude this may sound, by doing so they commit great stupidity. Sooner or later, the children will grow up and realize that you lied to them in order to achieve their goal. However, the phrases that we will discuss below can bring them emotional harm.
Parenting is not an easy task for parents. Great efforts are needed to form a full-fledged personality and a worthy member of society from a child. In addition, parenting takes all your free time. But at the same time, it is also the most important and enjoyable job that you have ever had to do in your life.
In such a chaotic process, you happen to tell your child something inappropriate or meaningless. Of course, you are not doing this on purpose. Perhaps you are tired, anxious, or busy with something when a careless harsh phrase flies from your lips.
It is important to understand that the rude things that you say to your child, he will certainly say in the future to his children. Therefore, try to prevent such situations for the benefit of future generations. Continue reading