Parents can and should teach their child discipline. The task of parents is to voice their expectations of the child’s behavior, explain to him the rules, norms and moral values. Children need to be constantly disciplined so that they can learn from their mistakes. Also, discipline provides the child with safety and gives him an understanding of what he can and cannot do.
Discipline helps the child learn and change their behavior. However, parental attempts to control their child can become excessive and harm him. When it comes to discipline of children, there is a very fine line between the attempts of parents to teach a child to discipline and violence against him. Parents and teachers must understand where this line passes, and in no case cross it.
In many countries, legislation is very strict on physical and mental abuse of children. In addition, abused children receive severe emotional trauma, the consequences of which they experience throughout their lives.
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In childhood, we are sure that we are educated correctly. But when we have to raise our own children, the advice of parents suddenly turns out to be outdated and useless. The methods used to educate you seem dangerous and terrifying when it comes to your child. Some tips for raising children today are really outdated, and they should not be used in the education of the modern generation.
Many young parents are puzzled by how to raise their children the way they want to see them. Relatives who like to give advice on any occasion do not always offer the best methods. What seems natural to them seems absurd to you. Some of these tips may seem outdated to you, and some may just be outrageous.
If you cannot escape the meaningless advice of relatives about raising children, just ignore them. If this is not possible, politely say that these tips are not suitable for you.
Consider a few outdated tips that do not work with modern children. Continue reading