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How to form a personal opinion for a teenager

During the puberty period, not only physical changes occur with the child. At this age, the child’s thinking skills do not just develop – this development occurs at a rapid pace. Perhaps your child has shown abilities for abstract thinking before, but they are fully disclosed only in adolescence.

Now he can critically reflect on concepts such as justice and equality, and also look at things from the perspective of another person. These changes in the thinking of adolescents allow them to better understand social trends and form their own opinions.

This development of cognitive abilities allows the teenager to find answers to many deep questions. A few years ago, these questions did not make sense to him, but now they help him to turn from a child into an independent adult: “Who am I? What do I believe in? What do I want to become and what needs to be done for this? ”

Inquisitiveness of the mind is one of the benefits that a child gains as a teenager. He wants to learn more at school and beyond. You may wonder how teenagers who are considered unmotivated at school are interested in what is happening in the world. They may be reluctant to learn lessons, but every day they read news sites and keep abreast of everything that happens in the world. Their grades at school do not reflect their level of knowledge. Adolescents are still not mature enough to get the most out of their curiosity.

Teens are often idealists, thinking they can change the world. Regardless of which generation they belong to, they look at the previous generation and say: “They ruined everything. I’m not going to be the same when I grow up. ” Unfortunately, here we are talking not only about the rebellion of adolescents. Our children and all subsequent generations will inherit a world in which there are many more dangers than in the one in which we were born.

Consider several ways to motivate a teenager to form their own opinion.

Take his words seriously. It is important for a teenager to know that you hear him. This does not mean that you should agree with him in everything or do whatever he asks. But he needs you to respect him, not consider his thoughts stupid, and understand his point of view.

Allow the teenager to persevere. There is nothing more passionate than when a teenager defends his beliefs or point of view. However, teens are stubborn. Living with a fanatical person is never easy. Teenagers often go too far with this because they need independence, and at the same time, they are not confident in their opinion. Teens still need your guidance, but are struggling with it. They need time to form their point of view, and for this they oppose the opinions of others. Therefore, forgive your teenager for excessive sharpness.

Do not worry if a teenager considers you a fool. The process of growing up a teenager is more like a swing of a pendulum than a forward movement. You may find that your dear boy, who used to take all your words on faith, now disagrees with you and constantly criticizes you. A teenager uses all his critical thinking skills to argue with you. This is due to the fact that adolescents, unlike children, can compare themselves with other people – friends, teachers, parents. These comparisons lead them to more realistic self-esteem.

Talk with your teenager about the latest news over dinner. Tell us what you heard in the latest news, ask what he thinks about it. A teenager is more willing to share his thoughts if he feels that you are listening to his words.

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