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When it comes to meeting the needs of the child, parents are often confused. They often cannot plan their finances and make certain mistakes in this matter.
You should not buy things for your children just because other children have them. Buy only what the child needs. This will help him understand the difference between desires and needs and build the conviction that you need to earn money to satisfy needs.
Parents tend to give their children love and happiness and feel satisfaction when they see a smile on the face of the child. When buying children all kinds of things, parents are unlikely to think about how much money they spend on trifles. They just want to provide their children a happy life at all costs.
However, it is important to understand whether you can afford such expenses and plan your finances correctly. If you do not plan finances, this can lead to financial crises and greatly complicate your life. There is nothing wrong with satisfying the needs of a child, but this should not be done only in order to conform to modern fashion or the desire to make a child happy. Continue reading
It may be difficult for you to believe that your child wants you to go up the career ladder. Representatives of prestigious professions (lawyers, businessmen, company leaders, etc.) have one thing in common: their children love to command.
Do you remember how parents in childhood gave you everything you wanted? You didn’t even need to say a word, but only to show what you wanted – and your parents immediately brought it to you. If you didn’t like something, you grumbled displeasedly, and your parents eliminated what annoyed you. Most likely, this was not the case in your childhood, but this is often the case with modern children.
On the other hand, pay attention to how you behave with other adults. You are not inferior if someone is trying to take your place in traffic. You can sometimes keep silent in a dispute with the head or teacher of your child in kindergarten, but in general you behave confidently and with dignity.
However, everything changes when your child begins to command. Continue reading
It is extremely important for a little girl what her parents think and say about her. Parents for a girl are the whole world, and therefore, if they say something bad about her, she takes it to heart. These words remain with her for many years. In adolescence, girls perceive all words many times more sharply than usual, and any frustrating commentary can make her see herself in an unsightly light. This often lowers the girl’s self-esteem.
Even adults don’t like it when their parents are lenient or challenging their opinions. From parents we need advice, but not harsh criticism.
Fortunately, many modern mothers have already abandoned the obsolete ways of raising girls, which they raised themselves. However, parents still often make mistakes in raising their daughters without even realizing the harm that they do. Parents do not understand that their language is the worst weapon they use against their daughters.
Consider 10 common phrases that can harm girls and which parents should refuse. Continue reading